Single Friends

Tuesday 03.02.09

I have a few single and amazing friends - why the heck are they single? 2 in particular stand out the most to me, an amazing friend i've had for a couple years since year 11 at high school. He's funny, amazing, uplifting and a joy to talk to and be around. He has the kindest heart and the most sincere personality - what the heck are girls thinking when they see him? I just don't get it. My heart breaks when he's so down cuz of some girl that wont reciprocate his feelings..... i want to see him happy, he's one of my closest friends and he sure deserves a girl that will make him feel like he means something to her. Hopefully he can wait for his "miss right" and not forget that he's certainly enough for what she needs!

There's a another guy i went to school with and tho i dont know him much, he's been one of the only ppl thats spoken to me while going through this whole James thing. It might not be much but telling me about silly little things he does makes me laugh. Sometimes it's nice to have a friend who will try and make u feel better without wanting all the details of ur life's drama or to tell u to snap outta it. Tho it's still a friendship that it building each day, it's something i can look forward to - i dont have a huge bunch of real friends... aquaintances yes, true friends no - and hopefully i can be there when he needs a swift kick in the butt to get outta a depressing mood. Those seem to just take over sometimes!! Now why this guy is still single, it puzzles me. He's funny and seems pretty straightforward and down to earth. What the heck are girls thinking in today's society?? Are they all blind??

They say its better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. But is that really true? Heartbreak seems so raw and so intense, sometimes i think it would be better to not experience it and always just keep love a "fantasy" but something we aren't actually able to grasp onto. Fair enuff, its amazing when u experience it and everything is in its "honeymoon" stage and its so fantastic! But when things become so routine and life kicks in, it doesn't seem to hold the sparkle it once did. No wonder ppl want out of relationships, or tend to stray to the greener (or so it seems) grass on the other side of the fence. If someone is worth waiting for, how long are we required to wait? And why do these other ppl come along in the time we're waiting for Mr or Miss Right only to confuse us into thinking they are "the one".

I hate seeing my friends frustrated when it comes to girls/boys and relationships in general. Why couldn't it be much more simple to work out between us and the opposite sex? Why does it have to be so damn confusing to work one another out? I dont think it should be too easy, but it doesn't need to be this hard either. If only we could all be straight with one another and know where we stand, without having to try and work it out for ourselves. *sigh* Maybe love does stink :P